Our vibrator buying guide for beginners: How to choose a sex toy
This mini vibe is a powerful bullet encased in a body-safe silicone sleeve shaped for direct clitoral stimulation, Hodder says. Its flexible “horns” serve the purpose of cradling the clitoris and a firm, rounded bead in the center provides firmer pressure (Screaming O, $18). So penetrative rabbit vibes aren’t always my jam, personally, but Mono Flex is a G-spot and clitoral vibe that is a solid contender for folks that really love that dual stimulation.
Before you invest in any vibrator, make sure it aligns with your sexual preferences and goals. For example, you don’t want to spring for a G-spot stimulator if you’re looking for anal play (doing so may result in an embarrassing trip to the emergency room). It’s all about the innovative combination of Pleasure Air Technology and deep, rumbly vibrations that work in perfect harmony to stimulate the clitoral glans in ways traditional vibrators simply can’t match.
“Vibrators are scientifically proven to help you orgasm,” says Laurie Mintz, P.h.D., a psychologist, certified sex therapist, and the author of Becoming Clitorate. “Orgasms are linked to increased sexual satisfaction and improving physical and emotional health outcomes. Think about what has given you pleasure in the past, specifically where you prefer to feel stimulation—and whether you enjoy penetration. Overall, the Lovense Lush is a strong choice for most people , with various connection and control options, high power, and pairing options.
There are various versions of the Magic Wand, including an old-school one that plugs into the wall vibrators, but this rechargeable version is more convenient and has more settings than the electric model. Using a sex toy is “an opportunity to experience new pleasures beyond your own hands,” says Destin Gerek, a sexologist and host of the Evolved Masculine podcast. “[Toys] allow you to enjoy those sensations even when your partner is not available or simply not in the mood.” And when they are, toys can ramp up partnered sex with new sensations and even help you go a little longer. If saving the planet while having mind-blowing orgasms is your vibe, the Gaia Eco Rabbit is the holy grail. Made from biodegradable, body-safe materials, it’s proof that sustainability can be really sexy.
It’s easy to be struck by the Connaisseur MJ’s sparkle, especially when you use a light fingerstyle touch. But as I got to know the guitar, I grew to love the balance and resonance in the low end. The rabbit vibrator continues to create a buzz in the sex toy world. Indeed, the Lovehoney Jessica Rabbit is among the brand’s best reviewed vibrators. If you prefer a vibrator to actually insert, maybe look elsewhere, but as far as wand massagers go, the Bed Geek is a great time.
